A printer came to me with a dilemma. One of his customers wanted to buy his family printing business and turn it into an in-house print-design department.
Since he owned the only print shop in his small town, he felt a responsibility to stay independent and serve the community, just as his parents did before him. Yet the offer was lucrative, and he was flattered.
The customer also wanted the printer to lead the new in-plant and build up the department. They would buy his business AND hire him.
We ran through the normal questions.
What does your wife think? (“She’s fine either way.”). Do you need the money? (“We’re doing well with the shop, so money’s not an issue.”) Are you ready to work for someone else? (“I think I would have a lot of freedom to run things my way.”)
We talked about risk. He listed the things he could and couldn’t control, his comfort zone, and which factors could drastically change each outcome.
I asked how he and his wife had made major decisions in the past, how long they gave themselves to decide, and which experts they consulted.
After a good long talk, he wasn’t any closer to a decision. I came at it from a different angle.
“If you knew you could not fail, what would you do?”
He thought for a moment.
“If I knew… FOR SURE… I could not fail, I’d find an awesome person to run our business for a couple of years. We’d move someplace exciting while the kids are young. And then we’d come back so they could go to the same high school my wife and I went to.”
What a future he envisioned — like a beautiful alt-ending to “It’s a Wonderful Life.” It had the best qualities of small-town life plus a splash of adventure. Once he had verbalized this vision, he could see a clearer path. This decision was not a choice between status quo and a lucrative offer. This was a fork in the road where he could create the kind of future he and his wife ad dreamed about for their family and their future.
To make confident decisions:
- Try to get away from the office to expand your creativity.
- Envision your ideal future BEFORE considering (or accepting) the options that have been offered.
- Consider a range of possibilities, not just the ones right in front of you.
- As an exercise, try removing or reducing risk from the equation and see where your heart leads you.
- If you feel resistance, take it one step at a time.
- Consult a trusted friend or expert.
With a better approach to decision-making, you may find yourself much closer to the wonderful life you always dreamed about.
See you in the future!
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Sandy Hubbard has been author and contributor at Print Media Centr since 2011. She is a Marketing Strategist and Business Growth Advisor who consults with privately owned print and media businesses of all sizes. Sandy guides clients in building visibility and increasing sales using solid techniques and a proven system.
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